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Why Visit the Sick? Author Unknown—copied and edited |
Not to satisfy personal curiosity. Curiosity seekers should stay at home.
Not to promote a selfish interest. Do not visit the sick in order to gain praise as a good worker.
Not because we have to visit. We should visit because we are willing to help.
To help the sick and those who are deeply concerned. If you cannot help, your presence becomes a hindrance.
To minister for Christ. He identified Himself with the unfortunate (Matthew 25:31-46).
Things That Help:
A cheerful attitude. The patient needs a word of sunshine--not a shadow.
Sympathetic understanding. Sympathy binds you to him, and him to you.
A willing hand. Be prepared to serve.
A hopeful word. Do not tell the patient that he doesn’t look well. Speak uplifting words, or be silent.
Try to smile and keep the conversation in a positive vein.
A prayerful heart. "Father, restore him to health. Bless him and those who are caring for him.”
Cooperation with the doctor and nurse. Do not interfere with their plans; follow them.
Seek to turn the patient’s thoughts away from himself. Fixing one’s mind on pain intensifies the pain; thinking about other things lessens it.
Try to talk about things in which the patient is interested—not about yourself!
Check with the patient’s family to determine a specific time for your visit.
End each visit with an uplifting prayer.
Things That Hinder:
A visit that’s too long. When you fulfill your mission, depart quietly.
Careless, thoughtless words. Sick people are sensitive. Be careful what you say.
A curious gaze. Do not stare at the patient.
Discussing other depressing events.
Talking about your own problems, or your aches and pains.
Offering medical advice; let the doctors do that.
--Author Unknown—copied and edited by KMG
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