• Not to satisfy personal curiosity. Curiosity seekers should stay at home.

• Not to promote a selfish interest. Do not visit the sick in order to gain praise as a good worker.

• Not because we have to visit. We should visit because we are willing to help.

• To help the sick and those who are deeply concerned. If you cannot help, your presence becomes a hindrance.

• To minister for Christ. He identified Himself with the unfortunate (Matthew 25:31-46).

Things That Help:

• A cheerful attitude. The patient needs a word of sunshine--not a shadow.

• Sympathetic understanding. Sympathy binds you to him, and him to you.

• A willing hand. Be prepared to serve.

• A hopeful word. Do not tell the patient that he doesn’t look well. Speak uplifting words, or be silent.

• Try to smile and keep the conversation in a positive vein.

• A prayerful heart. "Father, restore him to health. Bless him and those who are caring for him.”

• Cooperation with the doctor and nurse. Do not interfere with their plans; follow them.

• Seek to turn the patient’s thoughts away from himself. Fixing one’s mind on pain intensifies the pain; thinking about other things lessens it.

• Try to talk about things in which the patient is interested—not about yourself!

• Check with the patient’s family to determine a specific time for your visit.

• End each visit with an uplifting prayer.

Things That Hinder:

• A visit that’s too long. When you fulfill your mission, depart quietly.

• Careless, thoughtless words. Sick people are sensitive. Be careful what you say.

• A curious gaze. Do not stare at the patient.

• Discussing other depressing events.

• Talking about your own problems, or your aches and pains.

• Offering medical advice; let the doctors do that.

--Author Unknown—copied and edited by KMG

“She has done what she could...” {Mark 14:8} What a wonderful sentiment if all Christians just did this much!